Good morning, Lee

Saturday, November 14 — updated. Your three, today's installs, and the full Meta brief are all on here.

Updated Sat Nov 14 · 6:00 AM briefing
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Money · The Divorce Snapshot
$247
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Launch · Nov 4–30

Today's line

“Your lawyer has your case. I've got your back.”
The Divorce Docket · Think like a lawyer. Act like an adult.

Your three for today

Tap one when it's done — just for today, on this screen
DHS renewal — turn it in today. Proof of income upload + the email code to confirm. It was due by tomorrow, Sunday — you're doing it today, Sat Nov 14, so it's done.

Also due today

BILL-FGAPP $97Plus AT&T $283.57 above

Library

Worthy + Big Magic due todayRenew or return

Launch

Black Friday · Nov 4–30Early access Fri Nov 20, waitlist only · Cart opens Wed Nov 25

Saturday — Keep It Real + your Saturday read

1  Keep It Real: one honest moment, no teaching — that's today's post in the rhythm.
2  Saturday read: Hilary's “1 post, 7 days of Instagram” — one Substack piece stretched across the week, DM keyword instead of “link in bio.” Saved next to the other Hilary piece.
3  Pinned idea still waiting: “Here's to the ones who won't be destroyed by this.”

slow & steady

Today — Saturday Nov 14

Finish Snapshot8:00–9:30 AM · your #1 block today
Install AI video editor10:00–11:30 AM · see the installs list below
DoorDash lunch peak — kept openNo work blocks here, on purpose, for dash money
Budget sheet — add farm section1:00–2:30 PM · confirm free for all
Property sheet — find it & show it2:30–4:00 PM
DoorDash dinner peak — kept openNo work blocks here either
Alleviant — virtual appointmentTue Nov 17 · 11:00 AM · virtual, not Rogers · 4 consent forms still to sign before then
Calendar · Sat Nov 14, fitted around dash peaks
  • 1
    DHS renewal — turn it in todayProof of income upload + the email code to confirm. Due by tomorrow, Sunday — doing it today gets it done.
    Today
  • 2
    AI video editor — Edit Desk · install & set upToday's 10:00–11:30 block. The fast reel-editing workflow: transcribe, find the cuts and the hook.
    10:00 AM
  • 3
    Sign the 4 Alleviant consent formsArrived Nov 10. Needed before Tue Nov 17, 11:00 AM virtual.

Showing 3 of 16 — tap the block above or the button below for everything.

Your brief · from you & Meta AI — use as truth

The whole list, in one place

Everything from the “For Brady From Lee” brief, so you don't have to re-explain it or print it out. Positioning is not being re-done — this is it, as you wrote it.

Who you are

  • Lee Griffin, The Divorce Docket. Divorce attorney for 27 years in court and mediation. Now divorce strategy coach and mediator.
  • Mediates by Zoom. No attorneys in session.
  • Clients are men and women, ages 30–65. Everybody — not just women.
  • Tagline, everywhere: “Think like a lawyer, act like an adult.”
  • Voice: real, direct, kind. “Play nice.” “You are gonna lose your recess.” “In divorce you do not get what you deserve, you get what you prepare for.”
  • Never: “Move with dignity and power,” the word “roadmap,” cute checklists or pretty PDFs, generic narcissist content. High conflict takes two people — one difficult person is not a diagnosis.

What you give away free — everybody gets everything

  • 1 · Divorce Brain Dump
  • 2 · Brain Dump Sorter — Logical / Emotional / Illogical → your top 5 attorney questions + next 3 steps. Always: general information, laws vary by state, not legal advice.
  • 3 · Considerations Document — not a checklist. Property and debt, everything: airline miles, cemetery plots, cows and cow pairs, goats, tack, equipment lent to buddies, business, farm.
  • 4 · File Tree + new divorce email — a Google Drive file tree to copy, and a brand-new email just for divorce.
  • 5 · Budget Spreadsheet — the Divorce Monthly Budget Expense Form, 7 tabs: Instructions, Marital Monthly Budget, Wife Temp Order, Husband Temp Order, Your Projected New Budget, Spouse Projected New Budget, Income Types and Definitions. Farm section still to add: feed, hay, vet, farrier, equipment loans, fuel, livestock. Free for all — the $15 Etsy version is the same sheet.
  • 6 · Property Spreadsheet — by room plus outbuildings, tools, tack, trailers, equipment with serial numbers. Still to find and show — that's today's 2:30 block.

Your offers

  • Divorce Strategy Snapshot — $247 Black Friday ($397 value). 60 minutes, first 10 get 90 minutes. Voxer through Dec 31. 30-minute follow-up by Dec 31. Headline and dates still to finalize.
  • AI Circle Setup — $47 DIY / $97 with Voice Pack. Meta + Muse working together through one Google Doc Hub: Master Brain + Meta corner + Muse corner + Handoff Log. You are the two-minute bridge. For creators and coaches.
  • The Divorce Society — future goal. Elite coaching: Voxer access, hot seats, emergency calls, paperwork audits. Start $497/mo for the first 10 founding members, then $1,000/mo.

Filming & content — the full plan

  • Already done: 600 topics, 14 long-form videos, 13 Drive Time scripts.
  • The plan: film 1 long video, chop it into 3–5 shorts, plus a few extra shorts.
  • First video to film: “What Your Attorney Will Not Tell You But Should.”
  • Farm is your superpower: livestock valuation, the 300-head cattle case, the county fair pig story.
  • How you film: standing only, chest-up, bright neutral backdrop. Natural and talking, Julia Broome feel — worry about what's coming out of your mouth, not how you look.
  • B-roll: no animated faces. TDD pops — one readable word per pop (your six pillars + Clarity, Boundaries, Evidence, Courage, Next Chapter, Freedom). Phone shot list: hands with your coffee cup, notebook open on the desk, feet walking into your office, laptop from an angle, Eve or Eden, the front porch, car dashboard, window light. Three starter clips are made: coffee cup on a bright desk, notebook and pen, laptop in a bright room.
  • Two reel ideas saved: “It's always the wife” — your real perspective, you help men and women · and “Who belongs in mediation?” — social workers and coaches sitting in, when you don't think even lawyers should be there.
  • Pinned video: “Here's to the ones who won't be destroyed by this” — your draft-2 words, a separate concept. Plus: trim the mic-test opening off the intro video so it starts at “I am a former attorney.”
  • Hilary's move, saved for Saturday: 1 post → 7 days of Instagram. First line on a photo + “DM me FRIEND and I'll send it to you,” instead of link-in-bio or a headline screenshot. Full 7-day plan is behind her $8 paywall.
Source · “For Brady From Lee” brief, Nov 13 · your words govern

This week · November

Calendar

Bentonville · Today

53°
Partly cloudy
Sat Nov 14 · High 53° · Low 36° · A milder day than yesterday's freeze
MorningCold start · 36° low
AfternoonUp to 53° · partly cloudy
Dash peaksLunch 11–1 · Dinner 5–8
YesterdayFri · 50° / 28° · freeze warning AM

For your dash: warmer than yesterday — low 36°, high 53°, partly cloudy for both peaks. Your work blocks sit outside lunch 11–1 and dinner 5–8, so both peaks stay open.

Weather · Weather.com for Bentonville · Sat forecast from Fri Nov 13 check

Wins this week

  • Snapshot Black Friday price decided — $247
  • Your full brief is in — positioning settled, no re-explaining
  • Old HighLevel trial cancelled, clean slate for the new one
  • @thedivorcedocket is live and public
Email · Calendar

Daily habits

  • Bible reading
  • Workout
  • Personal reading
  • Job applications
Yes — your dashboard is updated for Saturday, Nov 14. Your three, today's timed blocks, the installs (AI video editor, openGym, HighLevel), the secondary list, and the entire Meta brief are all on this page.

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